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男人要走，是留不住的。有些女人傻得用自己的生命去留住他，有些女人却天真地用身体去留住他，结果两种女人都失败。爱情是由上半身开始的，然後是下半身，上半身和下半身契合，那是最完美的爱情。分手却是上半身的事。女人以为用身体可以留住一个不爱她的男人，她就未免太高估自己的下半身了。男人爱一个女人的时候，希望得到她的下半身。如果她只肯给他上半身，他也是愿意的。有些男人可以长久地恋慕一个女人他爱的是她的上半身、她的人品、她的智慧。他就是喜欢看见她 ，跟她谈天说地。他喜欢她，他会控制自己的下半身。留住爱情的，是上半身。好好的记牢这句 。
2 comments:
I have a different view for this article. Guys and girls get together not just because of the body.
If the girl has been guessing or thinking that a particular guy go after her just for her body, then there isn't a thing called trust and love.
A girl who is courted by a guy, seldom will think of this. Either the girl had hurt in the past or the girl has yet to ready to get in relationship will only have this mind set in their mind.
Learn to love and learn to trust. It's part of the life cycle and there is a quote for relationship.
人一出身就只有一半，它在茫茫人海当中寻找的另一半，它的名字叫爱情。。
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Firstly, thanks for commenting,I guess you misunderstood the meaning of upper body(shang ban shen) in the context i posted here. The body means here is not referring to its literate meaning. What it is trying to say is that LOVE should be cultivated and maintained through personality, trust and understanding, hardwork of both sides instead of using the down part or the sexual act to keep your partner away. I utterly agree with you that guy get together with gals not just because of body but i belief that no one could ever deny the importance of body in relationship as body does talk( i mean general body language). Of course, gals would not think that guys are desiring for her body when got courted by guys unless as you mentioned...she had horrible experienced and been hurted. But, some gals would have the thought as mentioned in the context. Hence, this is just like a reminder that the upper body(means the personality and understanding of both) is more important than the downer body in the gal-boy relationship~
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